My Friendships Are Based on Respect, Not Alliances "The only way to win with a toxic person is to not play their game," says Siggy concerning the tension between her and Margaret.
When I signed onto #RHONJ, I made a pledge that I would always show you who I am and how I deal with life. I am fully invested in this group of women.
Having said that, I cut out negativity and toxicity so it doesn’t infect my world. That is who I am, and who I am is what I pledged to show you. I am not and cannot be phony. When I tell you I love you, I will not say differently behind your back—you know where I stand at all times.
Once I observe and realize that a person is toxic, I’m done. I won’t break bread with toxic people. I can’t. No one can order me to associate or attend when I hit that threshold unless the toxic person reaches out.
It is devastating to see the truth play out before my eyes. Margaret says she doesn’t know why I’m upset, that she’ll be the bigger person. Here are some of Margaret’s comments to or about me so far: “I looked up man in the dictionary, and I didn’t see a picture of Michael Campanella there.”
“Siggy, known as Soggy Flicker, with all the crying.”
“Soggy Flicker, I’m crying all night.”
“Take it f---ing down a notch.”
“I mean, if [Siggy] says it’s ‘cause she had no f---ing uterus . . . “
“I think [Siggy] actually owes us an apology.”
“I mean, [Siggy] is psychotic.”
“[Siggy] really has to grow up.”
“[Siggy] is the highest level of insanity.”
“Yesterday, [Siggy] was having a stage five.”
“There’s literally a shrine in [Siggy’s] house.
“Sometimes [Siggy] don’t walk the walk.”
“For someone who makes a living telling people to walk away from toxic people…she’s the height of hypocrisy.”
“You don’t need another Dolores to be yes, yes, yes”
“I can’t tell the two apart—Dolores is so up Siggy’s ass lately. I can’t tell the difference.” How would you react if you discovered your friend targeted your husband, your friend, your profession, and your hysterectomy while continuously spouting, “I’m always the bigger person, I can get past anything. I don’t even know what she’s upset about?” To get the fill story, click on bio!
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Sincere gratitude to the person brave enough to call this epidemic out...